MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT – THE UNVEILING OF ADAM
by Bryan Borland
On December 20, 2009, my father died unexpectedly from injuries he received in a motor vehicle accident. On November 25, 2009, I gave my father a copy of my manuscript, My Life as Adam. My Life as Adam is a portrait of my family as we struggled to accept both my sexuality and the death of my older brother, who similarly died in a motor vehicle accident when I was thirteen years old. Because the poems of Adam are extremely personal and intimate as they relate to my family, I asked my father for his blessing prior to moving forward to publish my first full-length collection.
He told me I didn’t need his blessing, but that I had it.
As an early Christmas gift, my father provided me with the funds to hire prominent New York-based author, editor, and book designer John Stahle to create my own imprint. Thus, in his last act of love to me, my father enabled me to bring Adam to the public. Two weeks before he died, I told him, “Dad, you’ve made my dreams come true.” His generosity culminates with the announcement that my first book, My Life as Adam, will be published in early 2010 by Sibling Rivalry Press.
After lengthy counsel with mentors and friends, I made the decision to bypass a partnership with a traditional publishing house. Though there are many wonderful independent presses in existence and many benefits to walking the road commonly traveled, I believe that my potential audience could best be served if I maintained a level of involvement that is so often impossible within the constraints of traditional publication. I wanted to be intrinsically involved with every aspect of Adam, from the look and feel of the book to how it is marketed and promoted. In the spirit of Whitman, Poe, and Wilde, My Life as Adam will come to the masses with its author in complete control, live or die.
There are stigmas associated with self-publishing that I intend to shatter. Perhaps the strongest stigma is that self-published books suffer from a lack of professionalism or quality. I guarantee you that my book will aesthetically hold up to, if not surpass, the looks of other poetry books on the market. I’ve selected the cover art, a portrait by the talented gay artist Seth Ruggles Hiler. John Stahle, who many will recognize from his work on the top-of-the-line journal Ganymede, has worked tirelessly to coordinate the book’s layout and production. I asked gay art guru Philip F. Clark to write an introduction, which he did, and folks, it blew me away. The team I’ve assembled continues to impress me, and I can say, unequivocally, that when My Life as Adam steps out of our collective imaginations and swaggers seductively into your hands, you will not be disappointed.
In the end, my father made this decision for me. He taught me that so often, we waste time by not seizing opportunities. The world of publishing is changing and, indeed, has changed. I could have waited. I could have spent $25.00 per manuscript contest entry and tried to catch the eye of a publisher. I could have done back flips to win over expert panels. I could have sent My Life as Adam out to mainstream press after mainstream press and, yeah, I might have eventually been picked up. I might have been paid an advance. I might have been assigned cover art I abhorred. I might have received little-to-no promotion or support from my publisher. I might have gone out of print after a year. I might have grown old waiting for something to happen to me rather than making it happen myself.
It seems the only argument I could find against self-publishing a book of poetry came primarily from MFA programs and their administrators, many of whom believe in only one path to literary success. Self-publishing apparently kills one’s chances to become an academic. I think I killed those chances myself long ago.
With the advent of Sibling Rivalry Press, the champagne of success or the blood of failure is completely on my hands. My Life as Adam is, more than anything I’ll ever publish, my story. But it’s also the story of the kid in Nebraska, or Illinois, or Alabama, or New Jersey. It’s our story.
My Life as Adam is soon to become a reality. I want to express a great appreciation to so many who have helped me on this journey, including my husband, Christopher Baxter, and friends Loria Taylor, Stephen S. Mills, David Koon, and Jessie Carty. I want to thank Philip F. Clark for the hours of communication and motivation. I want to thank the readers of this blog whose feedback transformed me into a poet. But mostly, I just want to thank my father, the man who made the first thirty years of my life as Bryan truly wonderful.
Congratulations!! I am absolutely so excited for you. Will you tell your dear readers where to get a copy?
Why yes, Dear Reader. Amazon, etc. You know I’ll post a link! I’ll also randomly leave them places I visit in a plan to exploit and corrupt the unsuspecting.
I can honestly say your success means more to me than my own. Yours is a spirit that thrives on wind and verse, glaring sensitivity, and the undying, uncompromising reality of soul.
MedicatedLady! We don’t get sentimental with each other! How dare you make my eyes water with emotion! GOD, if we were together, we’d probably *cringe* HUG!
No, sweets. I would sob uncontrollably and you would look on helplessly.
don’t touch me.
Can’t wait to see the final product. This is such a nicely written announcement and I’m glad to have had the opportunity to read your manuscript.
Thanks Stephen. Your tweeted offer to take the book to the backrooms of the world is much appreciated.
Bryan I don’t have to see the final product to know it will be great because you’ve wrote such a heartfelt sentiment right here. I’m so proud of you and your accomplishments through all adversity’s you’ve come out on top. Congrats my friend. Have a great day.
Michelle,
Your words make me smile and are much appreciated. I’m happy you call me a friend and proud to call you the same.
This is great news, Bryan. When your collection comes out, I will buy my first ever book of poetry. It has been a great privilege to see your poetic voice grow more confident over the last year or so. You basically made me love poetry, and the English language.
I owe you an interview, Mr. Man. Maybe I was dragging my feet to make the timing perfect?
You’re been a supporter for so long and I really do love the bond we’ve created. We are so alike sometimes it’s scary! Do they know that the world’s on fire?
Maybe we could do an interview in timing with the release. You know where to find me. If you can find the time, I’d still love to talk a little more about your writing.
I’m sure I’m getting more out of our friendship than you do, Bryan, but I hope we can continue to inspire each other.
And yeah, we really share many of the same references and experiences. I know that even if I write something very personal, you will always try to understand. I’ve learned more about myself from sparring with you.
And one day, when your poems get the recognition they deserve, I can point to this comment with great pride. Or, as Hanson would say: ‘You get what you paid for in sweat’
I am so happy for you
My next goal – beat Ray Sharp in an athletic event. But that one might take a couple of decades…
sorry about your loss of your dear father,
glad that you stay strong
and are doing great on everything,
cheers,
much success to your future efforts.
Thanks jingle! I’m glad you found me!
Bravo! You have my enthusiastic support and all the karmic good will I can channel!
You’re clearly my poetic fairy godmother, Annmarie.
But you know this.
Bryan, this is as honest and touching a piece of writing as I’m sure your book will be
From you, a compliment such as this is spectacular.
You’re one of my poetic heroes, and one day I’m going to see you bring your poems to life in person.
Congratulations and well done, Bryan.
Thanks Paul – can’t wait be in the Russell household – even if it’s just on a bookshelf!
LoL. I’m sure you’ll make it onto the bookshelf more than once.
This is such great news, Bryan. I can’t wait to see the finished product!
I’m proud of you my friend.
Thank you, LaMar! Are you going to make cake balls for my book release party?
Of course I will! Any flavor(s) you want! I know how you love my balls.
Well, yours are the best. On New Years Eve, they were a bit salty, but still, the smell of your balls does liven up any party.
Fantastico! You are a superstar, Bryan. Let the amazing adventure continue ‘with its author in complete control, live or die’!
There is self publishing and there is the class of what you are doing that is far beyond reproach. You have made the perfect choice for you! I am so honored you included me in your announcement! I can’t wait to help you promote the book
holler when you are ready to join me on the marketing train. Toot toot! *hugs*
I’m feeling the love!!! Oh – I’m gonna holla at ya! And maybe you’ll let me curtain jerk for you at a reading?
Bryan,
Dang, I wish…your father…well, the wish would be meaningless. It is as it is, and sad that…
But for you I have wishes aplenty, for the brave one, the strong one – for your fools heart…may you blaze, and set the tone for your life, as you are already so plainly doing. And the Academics? Well you know what I think of them.
Be Well Bryan, and May You Flourish
Poetman
I sincerely appreciate the beautiful words of support, 1poet4man.
Hey Poetman–those are such warm words…I sense good karma, friend.
Are you hitting on 1Poet4man, M’Lady?
Deep, deep heartfelt congratulations! Your father sounds like he was a wonderful man. I know you will be a success and, if you want, even an academic.
*fist bump*
You know, I agree with you. The face of self publishing seems to be changing these days. Maybe the key is in marketing to the audience, but even in the past few decades, some very well known poets, William Stafford comes to mind, published their works in chap books on their own and gained a following along with critical acclaim elsewhere. I am looking forward to seeing your book!
David
Thanks, David. I guess it might be true… if you write it, they will come? I want to give my poems a chance to develop a life independent of me… which almost sounds like a dad talking about his son… the best way I knew how to do it was to put them out there. They’re full grown now.
Banjo House Press would like to welcome Sibling Rivalry Press to the ever exciting, liberating, overwhelming, bitten off more than one can chew, work until you die, hard sell, soft sell, please dear god buy my book world of self publishing. He he, welcome to the nightmare….bwahahahahahaha
Congratulations Mr. Borland. HUGS
More like a dream so far…
OOOH I think the high-powered corporate suits behind Banjo House and SIbling Rivalry should broker a deal to collaborate on world domination! Also, we could collectively hire MedicatedLady to be our assistant. (It was her idea.)
Excitement!!
You know I’ll be buying one, of course. ^__^ Look forward to seeing it in the flesh! (Or, as it will be a book, in the pulp.)
Joseph, it’s a date then. My book. You. A bottle of wine, or vodka. Some lotion. A potted plant. (Hey, I don’t judge you for your fetishes. Whatever floats your boat.)
Well, I don’t drink, but I’ll bring the ficus.
I’ll be waiting for the information as to where you need me to send a check in order to get a copy. If there is a party, please let me know what your drink of choice is too. I’m very much looking forward to it. Knock ‘em out, Bry.
Drink of choice = Gin & Tonic!
Plymouth gin ok? That’s my fav.
Congratulations! I want to read it too Bryan. What does the cover look like? (i see you said you have it picked out)
and I am so sorry about your father. I lost my dad about 3 years ago, I didn’t say anything cause I don’t really know you Bryan, but I do know the pain that is felt in losing a father
Thank you, Dusty. And I posted the cover just for you.
Hey B, I see I’m late again on the congrats train, but then I always am when it comes to your site and my self-absorbed ways.
What you have elegantly written about has been pressed into my mind, leaving me at times, prostrate and broken wondering what to do. As you know, your choices are also my choices for the same and sometimes different reasons.
What else can I can say in this venue but, I am deeply satisfied knowing your work will be in print. On a personal level I am sending you a virtual hug. You are very talented and deserve to have your books out in the world.
My sincerest congratulations.
Fashionably late, Bindo. I know you had to get a smoke in first. The same congrats go to you – I see we can purchase How to Kill Harry from Amazon! I know how long you’ve worked on your book, and I can’t wait to read it.
And although I hope it goes without saying, put me on the list for “Adam”
Right on Bro!
BTW…My apologies for not offering my condolences for the loss of your father sooner…
Bindo, please, brother. Some things you don’t have to say. You’re my friend, and I know i can count on you.
if to come so late then at least after the Bindo has enter
those are wonderful news and i cannot express my happiness about the way you hold your life, your book, as i have always enjoyed the way you run your site. As i lift my eyes up to the example of a poet and a man (as seems to from these open life you share here with us) i am just truly happy.
YES! Later than Bindo! You know how much I respect you as a person and a poet. You’ve always got a spot here.
Domination Bryan? Oh dahling I never collaborate on that, I avoid it at all costs in both myself and others, but I’ll bet we both crack that whip to perfection when need be. Let me know how to buy that book and I shall be there to add to my Binder, Squires and Brooke collection.
Oh, well, your black leather and chains beg otherwise, but I’ll humour you, Divine Miss V.
What a bittersweet and profound occasion for you, Bryan. I think you’re right on with the now or never way of thinking. Furthermore, why hand over control of your literary fate to some vague and dispassionate entity when you can indeed have a say in the matter? Congratulations! I look forward to reading “Adam.”
Thanks 1writegirl! You get what I’m sayin!
Dispassion is the enemy of art and its creators.
Congratulations on this my friend- I also look forward to reading “Adam”. The best of everything to you.
Thank you Cindy. I know Bev would have gotten a kick out of this!
I know for a fact Bev would have been thrilled. Hats off to you-
Congratulations and I will be getting me a copy. Sorry to hear about your father.
Thank you, Gabrielle. I appreciate you.
Congratulations, Bryan. I admire your tenacity, both in your writing and in your pursuit to publish your work. Hats off to you and best of luck with the publication. It is already a success in my eyes.
Your support means the world, socratesoul. The admiration is mutual, I assure you.
Congratulations, Bryan! May it be one of the many literary successes you’re bound to have in your life!
Here’s hoping, Rachel! Now if only we could clink glasses of wine!
I am thrilled for you, Bryan. I cannot wait to see/read/have a signed copy of my own!
And , uh, I do trades, ya know… poems for paintings sounds like a deal to me…
Heartfelt and intellect felt congratulations to you!!
DEAL!!!! But I don’t think that’s a fair trade! Maybe knock off $12 bucks from a painting?
Congratulations Bryan. Your passion and talent is really quite amazing. Wishing you success in hugenesses!
I appreciate that, Brad.
Perhaps I could get, say – three or four books to share?
I love gifting…
Let me know what you like, and, we’ll talk…
I think you made the right choice. Your work is awesome. Good luck.