Tag: Gay

New Poem: We Planted These Trees By Hand

Dumbass 1 asks the questions
I hear most, Which one is the woman?
Which one do you call Ma?

I ask him back Which one of your parents takes it
from behind? Dumbasses 2 and 3 turn like wolves,
growling laughter. I get this, mostly from the guys,

girls, sometimes, too, when they travel
in packs and sharpen their teeth on anything
different: longer socks, new haircut, two dads.

I can see it in their eyes, though, jealous of my solid pair
to their awkward four, to their bickering three,
to their lonely one and weekend visits; no stepmonsters

in my house, just footballs and violins, rooms full
of the smell of baking bread and used books. I can name
the last 20 Secretaries of State. My batting average

is .385. I know my home wasn’t created
by a six-pack and a busted rubber. They fought
for me. They won. Who fought you into existence?

© Bryan Borland

NOH8 in New Orleans

This past weekend, Chris and I road-tripped down to New Orleans for a NOH8 Campaign photoshoot with photographer Adam Bouska. From the NOH8 Campaign’s website:

On November 4, 2008 Proposition 8 passed in California, amending the state Constitution to ban same-sex marriage. The defeat provoked a groundswell of initiative within the GLBT community at a grassroots level, with many new political and protest organizations being formed in response.

The NOH8 Campaign is a photographic silent protest created by celebrity photographer Adam Bouska (http://www.bouska.net) and partner Jeff Parshley in direct response to the passage of Proposition 8. Photos feature subjects with duct tape over their mouths, symbolizing their voices being silenced by Prop 8 and similar legislation around the world, with “NOH8″ painted on one cheek in protest.

Two years since its inception, the NOH8 Campaign has grown to over 8,000 faces and continues to grow at an exponential rate. The campaign began with portraits of everyday Californians from all walks of life and soon rose to include politicians, military personnel, newlyweds, law enforcement, artists, celebrities, and many more.

The NOH8 Campaign has received overwhelming support from around the world, appearing on various local and national news programs and publications. The images are currently being used on various social networking sites to spread the message of equality, predominantly Facebook and Twitter. Eventually the images are expected to be compiled for a large-scale media campaign.

Start to finish, the photoshoot was a kick-ass experience.  The official photographs will be ready in three or four weeks, but for now, I’ll give you a little teaser.  First up, here’s Adam himself:

And here’s some behind the scene photos of our shoot, including me and Chris, and our new friend, O.T. Porter, who posed with his father’s war medals. 

If Adam and the NOH8 Campaign ever roll into your city (or neighboring state), don’t miss it. 

It Gets Better

Because of the success of Sibling Rivalry Press (YAY), and the intense publishing schedule that we’ve put in place, I’m taking a brief hiatus from the blog. But, dear readers, I’m leaving you with a parting gift, my contribution to the It Gets Better Project.

By Request: Got Your Back (An Angry Poem) – Spoken Word

For Dhyan, the spoken-word version of my response to the continuation of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell:


Got Your Back (An Angry Poem)

I’m tired of being a dancing queen,
marching in disco rhythm, carrying
your loaded guns, wiping your sweat,
putting on our pretty faces with rouge
and blood.  We die, too, for freedom, for the sanctity
of countries who throw stones at swinging corpses.
We will lay down our bodies on your straight-
spined backs to protect you from falling bombs
but you’d rather lose a limb
than hear a story about my husband?
Fuck you, America. Fuck your selective freedom
and your unprejudiced bullets of war.  
Fuck our tender hearts for taking one
for the team, again and again. Fuck us
if we don’t take our trigger fingers and replace them
with our middle fingers the next time
our squadrons are ambushed;
may we finally decide to man-up,
to demand, to tell.

© Bryan Borland

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